For the Mamas Holding Love & Loss
A heartfelt gift guide for angel mamas this Mother's Day.
Mother’s Day is a beautiful time to honor all kinds of mothers—past, present, and future. While it’s a day filled with love and celebration, it can also carry deep sorrow and be incredibly tender for many.
Last Mother’s Day, we had just found out we were expecting a baby. I couldn’t help but imagine that the next year, I’d be celebrating with a baby in my arms. Instead, I’ll be holding my baby in my heart…and a teddy bear in my aching arms.
I want this Mother’s Day to feel special—and I know so many other angel moms want this too. A day where we’re seen, remembered, and honored. Especially for those of us who might not look like mothers in the traditional sense. Most people wouldn’t look at me and think I’m a mama, simply because I don’t have a child in my arms. But I am. And I don’t want any mother—especially angel moms—to be forgotten this Mother’s Day.
I’ve always loved a thoughtful gift, but the ones I cherish most come from the heart. Notes, cards, words of love—they mean everything to me. Growing up, my siblings and I always made handmade Mother’s Day cards for our mom. A few weeks ago, it hit me that I’ll never get a card like this from Baby Joshy. That realization brought a wave of grief. So I talked to Josh and I asked him if he and Baby Joshy could create something special for me.
I’ve also learned that instead of hoping my husband will read my mind, it’s okay to tell him exactly what I’m feeling and what I need.
I’ve thoughtfully created this gift guide just for angel mamas—filled with gentle, meaningful items that offer comfort and love. Each piece has been delicately chosen, and many are things I’m personally eying, wear, use every day, or was given after Baby Joshy passed away.
Mother’s Day can be especially tender for those who have lost a child, and it’s not always easy to know what to give. But sometimes, the most meaningful gifts are the ones that come straight from the heart. This Mother’s Day, I hope you’ll choose something that reminds a grieving mama she’s seen, loved, and never alone.